Live the life you want to live

Yesterday marked the birthday of Queen Victoria, who reigned when Canada was born. It’s a classic Canadian holiday, dubbed “May two-four” in a nod to both the date (the Monday closest to May 24) and the ceremonial purchasing and consuming of at least...
Remembering Joan

Remembering Joan

Easter was early that year; March 26. I was awake but still in bed when the doorbell rang. It must have been something like 7 a.m., so my parents and I knew something was wrong; we arrived at the door at the same time, throwing on robes. There was a police officer...

Life is short; hug your loved ones

Fresh reminders this weekend that life is short, and as I blogged about recently, you need to find beauty in each day: a cousin just found out she has ovarian cancer after it had spread to her lungs. a good friend’s mother, diagnosed recently with a brain tumour...

Find beauty in each day

A post by Seth Godin led me to the transcript of a discussion with Washington Post writer Gene Weingarten. The topic was an experiment Gene conducted to see if violinist Josh Bell (incognito in a baseball cap) and his Stradivarius playing in a transit station could...
Dogs make great communicators

Dogs make great communicators

There surely is proper etiquette for visiting the dying, and I recently had an occasion to try to figure it out. My elderly neighbour, a widowed Scot in his eighties, knew he was dying of cancer and had just been moved to Ian Anderson House. This is a warm, homey...